T minus 4 days to the Horse Year! Did you watch last week’s YouTube video and been following my 9 tips on Instagram leading up to the day? If so, there’s still time so head on over! Here’s the link, but be sure to come back!
Today is a super interesting moment – it’s Friday the 13th, tomorrow is Valentine’s day and the 17th is opening to gates for the Fire Horse. Dang, that’s alot of energy in one week!
But you know I got you covered. What I teach you is what I am doing myself so keep reading…
Before the Fire Horse arrives and turns up the speed, the visibility and the opportunities in your life, there’s ONE thing I want you to get very clear on today – it’s your relationship strategy.
Many people come to me to work on relationships – with their partners, family, even collegeues – and today, and the next few days, are the perfect time to address this energy. The Horse year will be a fiery year that will amplify things. The Horse’s energy won’t fix things so you will need to do that on your own, with me to support you of course 😉
So today, in honor of relationship day, aka, V-day, I want you to look very honestly at 3 main relationship areas in your life:
1. Your relationship with yourself (the MOST important)
How do you actually treat your energy, your body, your time and your boundaries right now? Not what you say you value but what your daily rhythm is really showing. If you are already running on pressure and constant urgency, the Horse will not magically make you feel freer. It will simply make the stress louder.
Tip for your relationship with yourself: Pick a moment this week where you honor your energy on purpose – leave earlier, say no once (not 3 times!), stop working when you said you would, because the Horse will amplify to self care as well as stress.
2. Your relationship with a partner or the people closest to you
This can pertain to your partner, dating life, family and friends. Which relationship in my life feels supportive, spacious and honest, and which one quietly drains me? Because whatever is unresolved, unspoken or misaligned here does not stay neutral in a Horse year. It accelerates.
Tip for your relationship with your closest peeps: Choose one person you care about and ask one honest question and actually LISTEN! No fixing, no defending, no planning your reply.
3. Your relationship with the Fire Horse energy
This energy is about to enter your life, bringing speed, visibility and opportunity. How do you actually relate to opportunity, visibility and change? Do you meet expansion with excitement or with control, hesitation and overthinking? The Fire Horse brings movement, but it also exposes your comfort level with being seen, moving faster and letting life meet you halfway. It’s all about trust and I know that’s a hard one, I know, but I got you! You got you!
Tip for your relationship with the Fire Horse energy
Choose one clear intention or goal for the next 27 days, write it down somewhere visible and clear so it’s a daily reminder. The Horse energy moves fast, but focus is what keeps your goals clear and powerful.
You are training your nervous system for how you relate to yourself and others, and to what is about to move much faster in your life.
You are either preparing for the Fire Horse consciously or unconsciously. Work on these 3 tips this weekend and you’ll see that this is how a powerful year begins. Remember, you are the creator of your year and your life. See you next Friday when we are IN THE YEAR OF THE FIRE HORSE! Giddy-up my Feng Shui friends!
